recently my long time boyfreind and i are seriously thinking about moveing about three hours away from where we are now. it would be an awesome thing to do and i want to do it. it just that after we talked about it i was scared, for some reason.
i get scared when im faced with life changeing decisions. like when we first talked about getting engaged and even way before that when i first started college. its not just decisions with my boyfreind its with everything: jobs, school, engagements, thinking about moveing, when i got my driving permit.. ect.
after the initial stomach dropping scared feeling im fine. so is that normal?Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?It is normal to be scared. Change is a hard thing to accept. Life was so comfy and normal and now...it's not. It's hard to deal with.
Did you know that if a goldfish is raised in a little fish bowl that it only knows how to swim in little circles? Once you put the fish in a big pond it only know how to swim in little circles.
You aren't a fish. You are about to embark on a journey you are going to love and hate at the same time. You're growing up! :) It's going to be tough, and you're going to have to adjust. The best part about it, however, is that you WILL adjust and life WILL get back to normal.
Just keep communicating with your boyfriend/fiance/husband. You're going to be fine.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?ya, It is.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?yeah it would be normal to be scared by all these changes... perfectly normal......Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?yep, definately normalIs it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?Completely normal...have fun!Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?Its very normal. Anything that has doubt in it is bound to create fear in you. Its the unknown, the most fearful thing.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?Yes it is normal. Thats what life is all about so dont worry. Everyday is filled with little or big challenges. Just be confident and think of the present not the future for now. You'll be fine.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?Honey, you should be worried if you *didn't* get scared and nervous when making life altering decisions. You're just fine. That's completely normal if you have any self-preservation instinct. Enjoy the adventure of *life*.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?definetley it is really scary sometimes and its completely normal, I get nervous even when I am about to take vacations which are supposed to be relaxing, but you may be confusing getting scared with excitement.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?relationship problems are pestilent at best, no big deal. if it dosnt work, it don't work.
but yes, it is normal to become anxious and stressed about significant decisions. any decision can have extreme repercussionsIs it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?You're boyfriend's right. It's normal.
I was a little scared when I first moved out of my parents' place, but it was- well, necessary. Once I actually settled down, I had a blast.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?Um yeah, dahIs it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?perfectly normal..good luckIs it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?It's perfectly normal. First of all, with decisions, it's best to just sit down and think things through. Do some yoga or take a jog, anything to calm your nerves. And consider everything. Make a list of pros and cons of the situation you are given. Sort it out. Think it through. And come up with your answer :)Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?perfectly normal...its part n parcel of the growing up, growing mature, life goes on cycle...jus make sure u feel good abt ur decisions in the long run...follow ur gut instinct..Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?oh its defenitly normal dont worryIs it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?It's okay to be scared, because you are moving into a new environment. I think everyone go through some type of scary moment in their lives. Just trust your first thought, and if it doesn't seem right to you, then don't do it.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?I know why people think fear is evil but it is a blessing, I think.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?ya, i guess it would be normal
but i think you are more anxious and excited than scaredIs it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?Sounds very normal and like you are very responsible for thinking it out..Change in anyones life is scary, I would think if a person did not react to change I would be more concerned about them than your reaction.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?your boyfriend is right, this is very normal. i'm thinking about making some major changes in my life, and it's very scary.
good luck with the move. it'll be exciting once you actually get going.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?There is nothing wrong with being nervous about a decision that will drastically change your life. I am the same way. I get accustomed to things being a certain way and the thought of them changing makes my stomach drop. I can't imagine how I would feel if it came to moving away from where I currently live. I complain about living here all the time but the thought of leaving doesn't even enter my mind. You will probably be fine and just remember, you can always come back.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?works for meIs it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?It IS normal to have the feelings you are having. Try keeping a journal on these kinds of things. Place the pros of doing something and list the cons (Moving to a new place has the pro of meeting new people, the con is leaving friends/family). Talk it over with someone who is neutral on the subject. Good luck!Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?It's normal. It's fear of the unknown, fear of being hurt again, fear of failure. But you could miss out on some really great experiences if you back off of your fears. Plus it sounds like you have someone that is understanding and will help you face that fear and your more ahead of it than most. You won't have to face it alone. Take a chance, you don't have anything to loose and if you don't you stand to loose out on living life. It will be ok.
Kris
www.badgerscents.comIs it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?yes l think most people get a little scared when it comes to life changing decisions,it;s because we fear the unknown because we invest our emotions into things and the last thing we ever want is our emotions to be shattered.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?Yes, of course it's normal. If you didn't get scared about life changing decisions then you would be abnormal. It's feelings like that that make life so great.Is it normal to get scared about life changing decisions?yeh - yes dearie, it is absolutely normal to have anxiety about change.
But having change happens everyday of your life, there are the little ones you hardly notice, and then there are the big ones that preoccupy your thoughts and affect your own sense of well being.
Change is necessary to grow and to mature, to be better than you used to be, to live a more fulfilling life, to find the joys that fills you with contentment and to live happily ever after with someone, who cares for you and loves you.
Its alright, I just hope that this time around, you will live happily ever after.
Good luck %26amp; please take good care!
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