I use to be a believer in God until I met my fiance %26quot;Bob%26quot;. Now I curse frequently, smoke cigatettes, and do not ask for forgivness.What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?if u have 2 change, why bother?What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?i believe love makes us do crazy things!!!What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?Its not that serious...if he was truly the love of my life, he would change it for the better and complement the life that I love.What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?Your life has changed negatively after meeting your fiance.
I am not saying that it%26#039;s because of him but you certainly need to bring some good thing in your precious life.
Find out the reason %26amp; take some good steps you%26#039;ll certainly find life a lot better than present.
Goodluck!What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?Ask your self which is more important.. God or Bob.
God will forgive you, if you repent more quickly than Bob.What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?I%26#039;m assuming from the reference to God that you believe the changes in your life are contrary to His will, otherwise there would be no point in your question. In that case I would ask myself if the %26quot;love of my life%26quot; could be someone worth going to hell for? And if he is going to lead you to hell, how much could he possibly love YOU? And if he doesn%26#039;t love you, what makes you think he%26#039;s the %26quot;love of your life%26quot;?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?. The love of your life enriches, not changes your life.What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?I am soon going to do exactly that. When my fiance%26#039; graduates from UMR (shout-out to home girl!), we will be going somewhere else--don%26#039;t even know where yet--and my life will revolve around his career, probably. I have been a Missouri girl all my life, with brief worldwide excursions for the military, and it will be strange to move and start somewhere else with him. But most of my friends and family have moved on from here already. I%26#039;m ready for the change.What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?Yes, love should enhance your life, not change it. If you change but are true to yourself then it%26#039;s your decision. If it has you wondering, %26quot;What happened to me?%26quot;, then it%26#039;s not a change you wanted but allowed to happen to make things amiable w/your signifigant other. If this is true you will one day wish to go back to your previous ways. Be true to yourself now and answer your own question. It%26#039;s only fair for the both of you and it will benefit you both in the long run.What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?If you%26#039;ve found the love of your life, you wouldn%26#039;t be asking this question. But to answer; if you%26#039;ve found %26#039;the one%26#039;, everything will fall into place- you%26#039;ll find a way to make it work. A relationship is not a security blanket; it%26#039;s about taking risks, compromize, %26amp; Love: %26amp; love conquers all. You don%26#039;t have to take on his way of life, Honey; %26amp; besides, we%26#039;re all a little animalistic- guess you found your inner animal...!! :)What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?listen if you change your life for a better life its good but i notice that you change it to a bad life you start smokin dont ask for forgiveness .. i guess no need for this changes ..What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?I myself have made life altering changes to accomodate the love in my life. I think changing together is what makes a relationship. As long as you don%26#039;t lose your identity completely in the process.What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?For the first part of your question....it%26#039;s hard to answer because in all my days i haven%26#039;t met %26quot;the one%26quot; as yet, but when i do if i feel he%26#039;s worth it maybe who knows.
To the second part of your question.....why would you give some one else the power to make you react, or behave in this way, i would never give another the power to change me, why because we are all individuals with minds of our own.What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?Where am I coming from, where will I go? What is the meaning and purpose of my life? What is death like? Is it certain that there is life after death? Do Paradise and Hell exist? What is the origin of life? Where is our Creator? What does the Creator demand from us? How can I discern between right and wrong? Where do I find the answers to these questions??br>
For ages, people have sought answers to these crucial questions, given serious thought to them and discussed them thoroughly. Yet, contrary to what is generally believed, in all ages, the most reliable answers to these questions have been provided, not by the philosophers, but by the %26quot;true religion%26quot; which is the revelation of God.
Many religions have attracted adherents throughout the world-Buddhism, shamanism and paganism to name but a few. However, none of these were the revelation of God. Therefore, they were nothing more than a philosophy or a movement. Some, having merely a symbolic or cultural meaning, provided no social or psychological solutions to problems. Those who developed these religions, too, thought over these crucial questions, yet they could never find reliable answers.
Nevertheless, there are some %26quot;righteous religions%26quot; which have to be evaluated separately from these false religions. The most important feature of righteous religions, which distinguishes them from false religions, is their origin: they all have their roots in revelation. God informs mankind in the Qur%26#039;an about the superiority of the religion of truth over all other religions, philosophies or sociological systems:
It is He Who sent His messenger with guidance and the religion of Truth to exalt it over every other religion, and God suffices as a witness. (Surat al-Fath: 28)
It is He Who sent His Messenger with guidance and the religion of Truth to exalt it over every other religion, much as the idolaters may hate it. (Surat as-Saff: 9)
Judaism, Christianity and Islam are the religions which have their roots in revelation. Originally, they were all revealed by God, yet after their respective messengers, Christianity and Judaism were corrupted.
Man made countless distortions in the Old and New Testaments-making additions and deletions-and as the original books disappeared in time, various forged Old Testaments and New Testaments appeared. Meanwhile, the originals were completely forgotten. Hence, followers of these religions deviated from the original divine religion, and founded their beliefs, rituals, worshipping and life styles upon a wholly distorted understanding of religion fabricated by clergy and rabbis. Today, these beliefs and interpretations still persist. Thus, these distorted religions are very far from providing answers to the questions mentioned above.
After the distortion of these religions, God revealed the last divine Book, which will remain unchanged until the Day of Judgment, and He will be the One Who will surely guard it against all distortions:
We have, without doubt, sent down the Message; and We will assuredly guard it (from corruption). (Surat al-Hijr: 9)
For 14 centuries, the Qur%26#039;an has remained unchanged, and free from corruption. Every single letter of the original hand-written copies of the Qur%26#039;an has a one-to-one relation to the current copies we have today. In every corner of the world, people read the very same Qur%26#039;an, which proves that the Qur%26#039;an is kept under the special protection of God.
Throughout history, God communicated His messages, either by His messengers or His books. The Prophet Adam (as), the first man God created on earth, was assigned the same duty by God. In other words, the first people who appeared on earth were fully aware of the existence of God. Then followed many other messengers and books all throughout world history. This fact is recounted in the Qur%26#039;an:
Mankind was once a single community. Then God sent out prophets bringing good news and giving warning, and with them He sent down the Book with the truth to decide between people regarding their differences?(Surat al-Baqara: 213)
As is also stressed in the above-mentioned verse, God communicates His messages to man through His messengers and Books. Messengers always warn their people against the Day of Judgment and an eternal Hell, while they also give them the good tidings of an eternal bliss-Paradise. God, the One Who created man, is also the One Who surely knows the proper conditions in which man would feel most comfortable in this world. That is why the life style and moral values God demands from His servants shape a comfortable life on earth, as well as in the hereafter. In brief, by the mercy of God, religion is the system enabling man to attain an ideally structured life, both psychologically and sociologically.
Although bringing different commandments according to the different environments and conditions of the time they were revealed in, divine religions present to man essentially the same beliefs and moral examples. All divine religions convey fundamental facts about the existence of God. They explain the attributes of God, the purpose in the creation of man and all other living beings, how to be a decent servant of God, the ideal attitude and behaviour praised by God, the way to distinguish between right and wrong, good and bad, how to conduct one%26#039;s life to earn God%26#039;s approval and how to attain Paradise.
From this standpoint, the truly righteous religion in the sight of God is Islam. The basis of all religions revealed to man since the time of Prophet Adam (as), is Islam, which means %26quot;submission to God.%26quot; This fact is stressed as follows:
The religion with God is Islam... (Surah Al %26#039;Imran: 19)
Although righteous religions were attributed to their individual messengers and accordingly called %26quot;Judaism%26quot; and %26quot;Christianity,%26quot; the religions brought by these messengers were all the same righteous religion. In other words, in their time, they were all an Islam;
e has selected you and not placed any constraint upon you in the observance of your faith-the religion of your father, Ibrahim. In this, as in former scriptures, He has given you the name of Muslims?(Surat al-Hajj: 78)
Those who received divine books (Christians and Jews), before the Qur%26#039;an was revealed, were actually Muslims. This fact is related in the Qur%26#039;an in the words of those who had true faith among the Christians and Jews:
Those to whom We gave the Book before this believe in it. When it is recited to them, they say, %26quot;We believe in it; it is the truth from our Lord. We were already Muslims long before it came. (Surat al-Qasas: 52-53)
God rids Christians and Jews of their erroneous beliefs about this issue in the Qur%26#039;an, correcting them thus:
Ibrahim was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but a man of pure natural belief-a Muslim. He was not one of the idolaters. (Surah Al %26#039;Imran: 67)
When we refer to the Qur%26#039;an again, we see that, all through the ages, every prophet communicated the same fundamental system of worship and beliefs. In the Qur%26#039;an, it is said about:
- The Prophet Zakarriya (as) that the angels called out to him %26quot;while he was standing in prayer%26quot; (Surah Al %26#039;Imran: 39)
- The Prophet Shu%26#039;ayb (as) that his people called out to him saying, %26quot;Shu%26#039;ayb, do your prayers instruct you that we should renounce the gods our fathers worshipped or stop doing whatever we want to with our wealth? You are clearly forbearing, and rightly-guided!%26quot; (Surah Hud: 87)
- The Prophet Isma%26#039;il (as) that %26quot;He used to enjoin upon his people worship (to do salat) and almsgiving (zakat) and his Lord was pleased with him.%26quot; (Surah Maryam (MARY): 55)
- The Prophets Ishaq (as) and Ya%26#039;qub (as) that God %26quot;enjoined on them prayer (salat) and charity (zakat) and they worshipped none but Ourself.%26quot; (Surat al-Anbiya%26#039;: 73)
- The Prophet Musa (as) and his brother that God revealed His will to them, saying %26quot;...make your houses places of worship and conduct prayers (establish salat)?quot; (Surah Yunus: 87)
- The Prophet %26#039;Isa (JESUS) (as) that he said: %26quot;He(God) has made me blessed wherever I go, and directed me to be steadfast in prayer (salat) and give alms (zakat) to the poor as long as I shall live.%26quot; (Surah Maryam: 31)
- The Prophet Luqman (as) that he addressed his son thus: %26quot;My son, be steadfast in prayer (salat) and forbid what is wrong?quot; (Surah Luqman: 17) and %26quot;My son, serve no other deity besides God, for idolatry is a terrible wrong.%26quot; (Surah Luqman:13)
- Maryam (MARY) (as) that God commanded her thus:%26quot;Maryam, obey your Lord, prostrate yourself and bow down with the worshippers.%26quot; (Surah Al %26#039;Imran: 43)
These are examples of a few fundamental ways of worshipping and tenets of faith, and they can be further extended since essentially the same righteous religion was revealed to all prophets. The basic and immutable features of this righteous religion are repeated in the following verse:
They were ordered to worship only God, making their religion sincerely His as people of pure, natural belief, and to attend to their prayers (salat) and give alms (zakat)-that is surely the correct religion. (Surat al-Bayyina: 5)
Consequently, the religion with God is Islam. This incontrovertible fact is related in the Qur%26#039;an:
If anyone desires anything other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the hereafter he will be among the losers. (Surah Al %26#039;Imran: 85)
Now, you may refer to the following links to get to know more about Islam:
http://www.islam-guide.com/islam-guide.p
http://www.harunyahya.com
http://www.muslimconverts.com
The Nightmare of Disbelief (BOOK TITLE):
http://harunyahya.net/popup/Download.php
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But would it not already be changed?What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?If you change who you are for a man you will live to regret it very quickly. Peace and God bless you, my dear.What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?whether or not God exists YOU made the choice to be with him YOU can always leave, learn from this experience and hook up with a nice guy. this isn%26#039;t the fifties, there%26#039;s a whole system set up to help women.
VinWhat would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?The bible says when we are yoked to an unbeliever than we should stay and our own goodness will change that person. You shouldn%26#039;t curse just because it is unlady like and makes you sound uneducated. I smoke, God doesn%26#039;t care. I hope the two of you can have a happy life together. Sorry I don%26#039;t remember where in the bible it says what I just pointed out to you.What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?if u love bob then surely that is all that matters everyone makes changes in themselves wether they mean to or not! and like she sed love makes us do crazy things! =)What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?if you need to ask...you know the answers....remember...GOD will test us....BOB is your test.....What would you do if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?Girl, go stick your finger in a socket, then stick it in fire. Don%26#039;t forget to thank your new squeeze on the way down. Remember that you are seeking answers from the world, not from God.
