What was your biggest life changing experience ever?

Has your life been changed over a second? or a desicioun for ever?...have you had a moment when you could choose between your life and death?./..have you been so lucky to be alive now!!!?..if you had a life changing moment ..please share it.What was your biggest life changing experience ever?Mine was going to New Zealand. I originally came over on a 1 year working holiday visa then I met a man who later became my husband and father of my 4 month old daughter. I ended up moving here permanently. That decision to go to New Zealand in the first place changed my life forever.What was your biggest life changing experience ever?Life is worthless and cheap in the first place ... how important is any event within it? nothing ... life and all experience of life and within life is nothing more than some ****What was your biggest life changing experience ever?My biggest life changing experience was watching my father die unexpectedly. He had been ill for quite some time, but he had a period of slight recovery. When I arrived at his home, we had a conversation. I asked him a question. When I didn't hear his response, I turned around, he had a fixed look on his face. I tried CPR to revive him. It didn't work so I just closed his eyes, and told him it was OK to go on. My father and I had a very stressful relationship. He was an abusive and violent alcoholic, but when he was sober, he was gentle, loving and productive. When he drank, he was the opposite. I didn't see him for almost 2 years at one time because of embarrassing me in front of friends and neighbors by violent, loud tirades. His death changed me in that I am now more tolerant of those with addiction problems. I do not easily run from hard conditions or from others who perhaps I could help or even love alittle bit more in life. Not every life is the same. My father's situation changed me into a more tolerant and loving individual.What was your biggest life changing experience ever?The day my husband died. After being with this man since I was 16 I was alone. 35 years with the same best friend, lover.